Find a guy...♥

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when your in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who think you are just as pretty without make up on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you. The one who turns to his friends and say, "That's her." 

~ Only if it were that easy...♥

A Partial List of Eternal Truths. ♥

1. This is it!
2. There are no hidden meanings.
3. You can't get there from here, and besides there's no place else to go. 
4. Nothing lasts!
5. There is no way of getting all you want 
6. You can't have anything unless you let go of it. 
7. You only get to keep what you give away. 
8. There is no particular reason why you lost out on some things. 
9. The world is not necessarily just. Being good often foes not pay off and there is no compensation for misfortune. 
10. You have a responsibility to do your best nonetheless. 
11. It is a random universe to which we bring meaning. 
12. You don't really control anything. 
13. You can't make anyone love you. 
14. No one is any stronger or any weaker than anyone else. 
15. Everyone is, in his own way, vulnerable. 
16. There are no great men/women. 
17. If you have a hero, look again; you have diminished yourself in some way. 
18. All of you are worth something, if you will only own it. 
19. Childhood is a nightmare. 
20. But it is so very hard to be an on-your-own, take care of yourself because there is no one else to do it for you.
21. Love is not enough, but it sure helos. 
22. We have only ourselves, ad one another. That may not be much, but that's all there is. 
23. How strange, that so often, it all seems worth it. 
24. We are responsible for everything we do. 
25. No excuses will be accepted. 
26. You can run, but you can't hide. 
27. We must learn the power of living with out helplessness. 
28. The only victory lies in surrender to oneself. 
29. You are free to do whatever you like. You need only face the consequences. 
30. What do you know - for sure - anyway?
31. Learn to forgive yourself, again and again. 
32. And again and again. 
     By Sheldon Kopp.

Did you say it?

Did you say it? "I love you. I don't ever want to live without you. You changed my life." Did you say it? Make a plan. Set a goal. Work toward it, but every now and then, look around; Drink it in 'cause this is it. It might all be gone tomorrow. 

- Meredith Gray, Gray's Anatomy.

My Forever.♥

"Okay", he said. He took a breath. "What would you do, if you could do anything?" I took a step toward him, closing the space between us. "This" I said. And then I kissed him. 

 Kissed him. There, in the middle of the street, as the world went on around us. Behind me, I knew Jason was still waiting for an explanation, my sister was still lecturing, and that angel still had her eyes skyward, waiting to fly. As for me, I was just trying to get it right, whatever that meant. But now I finally felt I was on my way. Everyone had a forever, but given a choice, this would be mine. The one that began in this moment, with Wes, in a kiss that took my breath away, then gave it back - leaving me astounded, amazed, and most of all, alive.

Fragment of The Truth About Forever.

By Sarah Dessen. 

 

How it starts...♥

"Okay, what's going on here? What the heck is this? Oh my God. What's this feeling in the pit of my stomach? Who is this - this amazing creature before me? I looked at Rosemary and just felt so, um, confused. She's a girl. I'm supposed to despise girls, not feel nervous talking to one, not feel tongue-tied. I mean this was Rosemary Telesco, I knew her since Kindergarten!"

- Gabe, Little Manhattan. ♥

Broken-hearted.

"Love is an ugly, terrible business practiced by fools. It'll trample your heart and leave you bleeding on the floor. And what does it really get you in the end? Nothing but few incredible memories that you can't ever shake. The truth is, there's gonna be other girls out there. I mean, I hope. But I'm never gonna get another first love. That one is always gonna be her."

- Gabe, Little Manhattan.

What Love is About.. ♥

"Love isn't about ridiculous little words. Love is about grand gestures. Love is about airplanes pulling banners over stadiums, proposals on jumbo-trons, giant words in sky writing. Love is about going that extra mile even if it hurts, letting it all hang out there. Love is about finding courage inside of you that you didn't even know was there."

- Little Manhattan.

Oh. My. Effing. God.

Okay, I'm in shock. 

Before saying why I am shocked I'm going to let you in this secret not so secretly kept. 


I love Logan Lerman, who I like to call the love of my life. 

First I had this huge crush on Channing Tatum, but I discovered that the guy is like 30 years old, so he is too old for me, and yeah, I know, love has no age, but let's get realistic, even if I met him, he's married so there's no opportunity for us (and I'm actually saddened by this). 


Then my best friend saw Percy Jackson, which I have to admit is not the best movie ever... well, it doesn't even get in the top 20 of the best movies ever made, hell, it doesn't even get in the top 40. So.. the point is, she saw the movie and told me "Hey, I just saw Percy Jackson and the guy who plays Percy is VERY hot", so her dad bought the movie and we saw it together, and hell yes, he is hot. She told me the name of the guy that played Percy who, how you can imagine, is Logan Lerman. And after that, I've loved him. 


You must be thinking "HAHA She is crazy, she thinks she's going to marry him, she's not even going to met him! And if she does she's not going to become his girlfriend" Well, thanks for being realistic but I'm an exception, or so I like to think.

If I say I will do whatever it takes to be his girl.. I'm going to sound stupid so I'll just keep my secret plan to myself, and make you suffer wondering what my secret and so awesome plan is... like I even have one. 


So going back to the subject, I just told you how I got to know Logan Lerman (who later I realized that I knew who he was but never bothered to get to know more about him). Now I'm going to explain why I am in shock. 


Just one word: Hair. 

Did you see the picture I posted along with this? He is Logan. His hair I really hope is not. 
That's how he's going to appear in his next movie: The Three Musketeers, where he plays D'Artagnan.  Let's hope that all that hair is just a wig. 

Please. 
Please.
Please. 


He is beautiful even with all the hair, but you know, a little shorter wouldn't hurt anyone.

Things to do when you're bored in an elevator..~

1. Mutter surprising confessions just as the door closes. 
2. Rush to catch the elevator. 
3. Act as if you've been spotted by the bad guy and run away in panic to the elevator. 
4. Translate other people's conversation into spanish. 
5. Text on your phone, while speaking your message out loud. 
6. Orbit the largest person. 
7. Stand an uncomfortably short distance from another person. 
8. Hold a head-shot an pretend you are rehearsing for an audition... use every conceivable inflection. 

Rules of Being Human. ♥

You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for as long as you live. How you take care of it or fail to take care of it make an enormous difference in the quality of your life. 

There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error and experimentation. You can learn as much from failure as you can from success. Maybe more. 

A lessons is repeated until it is learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it (as evidenced by a change in your attitude and ultimately your behavior) then you can go on to the next lesson. 

Learning lessons does not end. There is no stage of life that does not contain some lessons. As long as you live there will be something more to learn. 

"There" is no better than "Here". When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply discover another "there" that will again look better than your "here". Don't be fooled by believing that the unattainable is better than what you have. 

Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself. When tempted to criticize others, ask yourself why you feel so strongly. 

What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you create with those tools and resources is up to you. Remember that through desire, goal setting and unflagging effort you can have anything you want. Persistence is the key to success. 

The answers lie inside of you. The solutions to all of life's problems lie within your grasp. All you need to do is ask, look, listen and trust yourself. 

You will forget all this.